Do take care of yourself but not at expense of others. In furthering your own ends, please do not end up not only being uncaring towards others but also harming them.
At the other extreme, taking care of others to point of neglecting or not caring for yourself is not good and in a way counterproductive and a denial of your own life interests.
There is need for wisdom to find that balance and to ensure that goodness prevail in all aspects.
Otherwise, the more ignorant too can help others but the difference is that they lack wisdom and may end up being manipulated by others, or worse still end up fanning the negative characteristics of others.
There is need for purity as well as wisdom. Do not give up on others especially a close one just because he or she is a liability and no more an advantage to you.
Create an advantageous social and life milieu for him or her so that he or she has less or better still no handicap, so that he or she can have more of life, move on in life and be happy.
But to do so you must take care of yourself and improve your lot, your resources and capacity** to care not only for yourself but for others,* more so your close ones.
These are all you need to care with regards to care. The sages of old said that only then will there be peace in life. There is then what they refer to as yin and yang balance that not only lead to peace in life but to the divine peace of spirit and ultimate enlightenment.
*The others cannot be everyone but only those who have affinity and proximity with you.
**One bad habit to avoid is sluggishness what Buddha referred to as sloth and torpor
**One bad habit to avoid is sluggishness what Buddha referred to as sloth and torpor
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