Learning Point No 250
Yearn not for the good life that your neighbour has for what is good for him may not be good for you. This is not that you will have less and also not that you will have more. One man's meat is another man's poison.
What you can have must be within your resources and abilities and within your family and social context. Resources refer to not only current worldly or material resources but also to what you can potentially have and this is determined by what you are able to tap on before you are born, both the good and not so good, or what the sages of Tao refer to as the yin and the yang as well as fate based on the accumulated forces of past.
Sages say that your birth year, date and hour of birth give some indication of your life potential that you have from the past before you are born.
To those who believe in past as past lives, this would have more significance.
But to those who do not, let us say that God or divinity makes a stand on what you can potentially have and not have, so that each individual is unique and must make life work for him to the optimum but not beyond as the latter will be counter-productive and cause untold miseries.
For instance, one who is preoccupied with making money when he is supposed to help others eg a doctor may end up rich by going overboard but the consequences may rob him off his wealth and even his life.
No two persons are alike and the success story or modus operandi is unique to the person.
For instance, one who is preoccupied with making money when he is supposed to help others eg a doctor may end up rich by going overboard but the consequences may rob him off his wealth and even his life.
No two persons are alike and the success story or modus operandi is unique to the person.
It is not that Heaven is unfair and some are better off than others. Remember that the lessons one has to undergo in life are not the same for all.
The yardsticks required of the better endowed may be more exacting than for the less endowed. That is why it may be more difficult for the well-off to go to Heaven but the truth is that even this is not exactly true though generally correct for other parameters may come into the equation.
Matthew 19:23-24 “I tell you the truth, it is hard for a rich man to enter the kingdom of heaven. Again I tell you, it is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”